Pujo is in the air!

As Game of Thrones called it a wrap for Season 7, a majority of the mortals on planet Earth (including me) are once again troubled with an innocently relevant question: “What is the purpose of life?” It seems that for the next one or may be two years until Season 8 goes on air, self-discovery is of utmost importance, especially since the last few months were spent primarily on speculation.  Now that we are on our own, what do we look forward to?

Thankfully, for Bengali folks (again, including me) across the globe, this is not a problem. Something bigger awaits us in less than a week’s time – The Durga Puja. Yes, a lot has been written and spoken of about Durga Puja and by now, we all know that it is a grand carnival, bringing together the best of Bengal’s creativity, fashion, grandeur, colour, art, food, literature and music in one big potboiler. It is the homecoming celebration of our Ma Durga, and everyone, from beggar to Banerjee, participates in the festivities making the 10 days of her stay a truly memorable one. Therefore, from discussing puja pandal themes, to planning just the right combination of clothes and accessories for each day, the Bengali mind is currently at work. Funnily enough, some of the ineffectual Non-Bengali minds (the world is but divided into two categories – Bengalis and Non-Bengalis), are also at work on social media, raising hue and cry about what must not be. From trying to teach us how not to make fun of our Gods and Goddesses, to telling us not to eat egg rolls during Durga Puja, they might have stretched it a bit too far. Hence, I have a feeling that this year, we are going to be bigger, just to prove a point. I mean, no egg rolls? “Blistering barnacles!”   

But hateful things aside, I can’t help but dip myself in nostalgia, every time someone utters the word ‘Pujo’, as we call it. This year, the feeling is even more magnified, especially since I’m not being able to be there on the streets of Calcutta to witness the grand festival. So this, I write to spread some festive cheer and to share with some of you lovely people, the happy realizations and life lessons, which Pujo has taught me since my teenage years. Here goes, in no order of preference:

1.    Love thy Neighbour:

The neighbourhood Pujo remains the closest to the heart of any Bengali and there is always an unexplained excitement surrounding it. But what makes it extra special is the fact that there is always scope of finding romance in the neighbourhood, to add a splash of colour to the already majestic festival arrangements. The boys of the neighbourhood, lovingly referred to as the para‘r chhele, are the most active and attractive during the run up to Pujo. While all year round, they are idling their time away around the common carom board put up at the community hall, they suddenly begin to be viewed as responsible young gentlemen during the festive season. The neighbourhood girl or the para’r meye is anyway the most desirable all year round, leaving no room for contest on that and hence, if, during Pujo, you have not been able to hook up with a para’r chhele or meye, you are missing out on something very crucial.

2.    The Marauder’s map:

With the recent spurt in the number of Pujo pandals across the city, it is likely that one will find at least two pandals in a narrow dingy lane. In fact, when I had been a novice to this, I would invariably find a ‘No Entry’ board on either side of the lane, thanks to the pandals blocking the way, making it absolutely impossible to reach my destination. Hence, it is essential to discover shortcuts or alternative routes beforehand, to make your travel easy. Remember Marauder’s map in the Harry Potter series?  I had one designed for my own reference all these years, which read something like this –

“To avoid crowd on the main road, take Lane A”;
“Lane B has unwanted Aunties, who are likely to mob you with irritating questions like, “What are you studying?”, “Who are you dating?”, etc. Better take Lane C”;
“If you’re holding hands with ahem, someone special, take Lane D”;
“The pandal in lane E has that snooty girl from college and your ex. Divert to Lane W, T, or F.”  

Trust me, it has been extremely handy. If not anything else, it successfully ensures that mischief is managed!

3.    Jaa Simran, jee le apni zindagi:

Now, Simran might have heard this phrase only once in her life from Bauji in DDLJ, but the Bengali daughters hear these golden words every year during Pujo. While on other days, you are sworn to come home by a modestly set deadline, there are no such things during Pujo. On other days, you might be asked to wear a shrug over your spaghetti top, but on days of Pujo, Ma will insist that the halter sleeve blouse looks hot as hell with the saree she bought for you! From pandal hopping all night, to enjoying unending conversations or adda with friends in the most ‘happening’ pujo pandals of town - the boys and girls are denied absolutely nothing. Add to that, some extra pocket money generously received from parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles and the whole package, is pure bliss. In short, you rule the 7 Kingdoms for those 10 days.   

4.    The Backstreet Boys

While the entrance and the front side of a pujo pandal boasts of all the glamorous activities such as photo sessions, bumping into old acquaintances, exchanging pleasantries etc., the back side of the pandal is where the shady, yet utterly interesting activities happen. From Old Monk to super sandwiches (as Marshall from ‘How I Met Your Mother’ calls it), you can grab it all, while catching up with some extraordinary people, whom I call ‘The Backstreet Boys’. Needless to say, you will meet your highness at the back of the pandal and engage in some enriching conversations about art, history and politics, while partially cutting yourself off from the brouhaha of the crowd outside. Of course, you can repeat the ritual at someone’s house or on the terrace, but getting high secretly behind the pujo pandal, with the sound of the dhaak filling your ears, is a different feeling altogether.

5.    Keep walking, keep eating

The real delight of Pujo lies in leisurely experiencing the art and food trail set up across the city, which, in my opinion, is best explored on foot. The large canvas sized lights on the road, depicting characters and quotes from Bengali children’s stories, will guide you to the next Pujo pandal. On the way will be stalls of egg roll, chicken roll, fish fry, chicken cutlet, chicken momos and chowmein, all of which are by the way, non-vegetarian dishes. It will be served with salad and sauce, as per choice, and will consummate your Pujo experience with the requisite foodgasm. Of course, there will also be phuchka, paapri chaat, jhaal muri, ghoogni and the likes, which too will unfailingly jazz up your taste buds. So yes, contrary to popular belief, we do enjoy vegetarian food also! If you feel thirsty from all the walking, you can stop at the masala Thums- up stall and drink something chilled. If, on the other hand, you’re a tea person, you can try the local lemon tea, spiced with some rock salt, which will refresh your tired self nonetheless. As regards the variety of pandals which you will witness, there is no end to it. While at one pandal, you will be mesmerised by the magnificence of the idol, in the other you will be awed by the ornate craft displayed by the artisans. Thus, one must keep walking and keep eating.

So, are you preparing yourself for Pujo? Planning to visit Calcutta or staying put where you are, celebrating anyway? I’ll be looking forward to some of your life lessons and Pujo realizations. I’m sure you can add to this list. After all, why not, pujo is in the air!



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